- Early morning Sunrise Services, sitting outside, shivering in the early desert air
- Breakfast in the church fellowship hall
- Beautiful dresses sewn by my mother
- Dying eggs –the smell of vinegar, writing on eggs with a white crayon, leaving them in the dye a long time to get vivid colors
- Hiding and seeking the eggs
- The year my dad hid an egg in the rafters of the front porch and it wasn’t found ’til months later
- Easter hymns: “Hear the bells ringing they’re singing that we can be born againnnnnnn…”
- Imagining the wonder of the women who found the empty tomb
- Easter baskets with chocolate and jelly beans and plastic grass
Easter Sunday, Late 70s
- Her laugh – the way she would throw her head back and clap her hands together and laugh with her whole soul
- Her ability to get things done. Now.
- Her willingness to stop whatever she was doing to do something more important for her friends.
- Her enthusiasm for life.
- Her refusal to let the cancer define her as a person.
- Her stubborness. It’s a trait we share.
- Her slightly naughty sense of humor, which probably most of you didn’t get to see.
- Her all encompassing love for her children, all 5 of them.
- Lunch at Chi-chis. Or Bishops. Or Hardees.
- Girls time in DesMoines with all 3 of us BFFs
- The way she never ever ever complained about anything. Not the cancer, not her divorce, not the chemo, not even at the end.
- Her drive and ambition.
- Her cream cheese mints.
- Planning events with her.
- When she would load up all the 8 million kids and take them to her house to make cookies.
- How she always told me the truth. Always. No matter whether I wanted to hear it or not.
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- Constant sunshine
- 75 degree winters
- Mountains
- Oranges and orange groves
- Palm trees
- Cacti
- The wildness of the desert
- The Mogollon Rim
- The lack of snow
- Oleanders
The back yard of the house I grew up in
The neighbors' oleander bushes
- Ring Around the Collar
- Kai
- Kira
- Nanook
- Silverado / Silver
- Starbuck
Starbuck & Caleb, 2004ish
Cutco Cutlery & The Forever Guarantee
- Babysitter
- Landscaper
- Retail sales – women’s clothes
- Telemarketer
- Preschool teacher
- Grocery store clerk
- Retail sales – lingerie department
- Retail sales – shoe department
- Personal sales – Cutco cutlery
- Personal sales – House of Lloyd decor
- Retail sales – ladies wear
- Assistant to department manager – electronics
- Retail sales – electronics department
- Stockroom / Dock
- Internet research
- Telephone transcription
- Choir teacher – 5th grade – High school
- Secretary
- Sales Manager
- Lifeguard
- Horse wrangler
- Kitchen/ Dish room
- Water exercise instructor
- Lifeguard instructor
- Swim instructor
- Children’s “Rhythm & Rhyme” movement instructor
- Copywriter, editor, blog marketing
- Lifeguard supervisor
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